Friday, June 19, 2009

belated last post

The end of my time in India was really great.  I was so busy just spending time with people before I left.  A fair came to Khardah which I went to with some of the students and we rode the rides and stuff.  It was fun, but we had to leave early when it began raining.  
I had a tea party with all the students, which was nice.  I bought like every possible kind of biscuit and potato chip.  They disappeared quickly.  The tea I got from a stall across the street.  I carried a big pot over there for them to fill.  I was too lazy to make all of it myself...
I spent alot of time at my students' houses or chatting with my neighbors.  
I left on May 29 and had a long, problem-free trip home.  
Being back is strange.  I'm still adjusting.  I do miss living in a small town setting like Khardah where I knew so many people.  And I miss the general open and friendly attitude of Bengali culture.  Its so different here.  Not to mention empty.  Where are all the people?  America, especially the old, upper-middle class neighborhood I live in, seems very big and quiet and... asleep, I guess.  Compared with the lively, crowded streets of India.
I had a slideshow of some of my photos from my trip on Sunday.  Friends and family came to see and listen.  It was nice.

I'm also still in touch with the CRAWL students.  I gave CRAWL money for their internet use and I made a skype account for them so they call and e-mail me quite frequently.  I miss them terribly so being in contact with them makes it easier for me.

I'm looking forward to the day I get to go back.
Thanks for reading.
~m

Friday, May 15, 2009

ei ei ei...
So much to write and so little time to write about it...

I was really sick on Wednesday, but I'm all better now. Got my antibiotics and I'm good.

I have two weeks left here in Khardah. Crazy.

I've been spending lots of time with my students, watching movies and playing kabadee and football outside of school. I've been going to Piya's house alot, which I really enjoy.

I have a new friend, a woman who works at a shop near the flat. When I'm on my way home in the evenings I always stop and chat with her (in Bengali). She gave me a gift, a green statue of a couple dancing. Indians have a thing for cheap statues of Westerners. It was really sweet of her.

Elections had been going on in India for awhile, but they ended on Wednesday. Different regions of the country vote on different days. It gets really violent in the areas where the elections are taking place. Kolkata voted on Wednesday, so all CRAWL programs where stopped. The results will be released tomorrow and all programs will stop then too. There was actually a problem in another part of Khardah on Wednesday. I don't know exactly what happened but it was violent and it made the news. It wasn't close to me though. One would have to take an auto to get to that part of Khardah from this part. Anyways, its pretty crazy. A few people I've talked to voted, but most did not. They all say that all of the people up for election are bad and corrupt. America sure doesn't have a perfect democracy or a perfect election system, but it is leagues ahead of India. Here voting goes hand in hand with riots.

Let me tell you about a delicious food to be found on the streets of Kolkata (and Khardah, and probably everywhere in India). Its called fuchka. Its deep fried balls of dough, slightly larger than ping pong balls. They're hollow and extremely thin and crispy, probably thinner than a potato chip. The fuchka-walla makes a mixture of potato, spices, onion, cilantro, and chilli, which he mashes in a bowl with his hand. Then he puts a little bit of this mixture in the bottom of one of the balls. He then dips the ball into one of two pots, one containing tamarind water which is spicy, sour and salty, and the other containing rose water which is syrupy and sweet. With the ball overflowing with this water, he places it in a bowl made out of a leaf, which the customer is holding. The customer puts the whole ball in his or her mouth at once. There is a huge burst of flavor; it is so delicious! I prefer the tamarid water to the rose water, but the most recent time I had this treat, the vendor double-dipped it, in the tamarind water and then in the rose water. That is the best. It is spicy, sweet, sour, salty, crunchy, soft, liquidy, everything all at once! And as soon as you've put one in your mouth, the vedor has put a new one in your bowl, so its really easy to eat a whole bunch of them without noticing, which isn't necissarily a good thing. They aren't very filling, but they surely aren't too healthy either. Anyway, if you ever go to India, you must try fuchka!
(ok, do I sound like a commercial, or what?)
That's all for now, folks.

~m

Thursday, May 7, 2009

three weeks...

I know, I know, I've been slacking. I've just been so busy that I haven't been able to write. The problem is, every day is so full that I have so much to write that many days I dismiss the prospect of a post because I don't have the time to do it justice. And then the unrecounted experiences add up. So, like last time, there's no way I call tell about everything that's happened since my last post.

Today, Weis, a 60 year old Dutch woman, left. She was the last of the volunteers besides me, so now I'm alone at the flat and it looks like it'll probably be that way for the rest of my time here, which is only three weeks. Its ok, I have enough to keep me occupied, I'll just miss having someone to talk and process with. Especially because I know these last few weeks will be quite emotional.
Summer camp ended and regular school started back up. Summer camp was fun, the kids really enjoyed it. At school I'm teaching linear equations to the advanced group, and the intermediate group is working on geometery, currently the area of triangles.
A few weekends ago I went to visit Mayapur, the main world Hare Krishna place. It is really beautiful. I saw more (white) foreigners (not tourists, religious folks) there than I ever do in Kolkata.
I continue to play football, frisbee and cabardee with the kids outside of school.
My birthday was on Tuesday. Weis and I went to Bobby's house for lunch. We had rice, dal, chapatti, panner, potato and jackfruit curry, tomoato chutney, and cucumber. It was delicious. Bobby's husband gave me a little statue of a man and a woman sitting together. It was very Western, and odd choice, I thought, but I really like it. I was surprised that he got something for me at all. After lunch, we watched The Notebook. Its such a good movie. It took me back to being with my friends in America though, so it made me a little homesick. After the movie, the girls came to the flat. The brought me a piece of cake, which we all shared. I know they all scraped together to buy it for me. It probably cost 10 rupees, about 20 cents. It was really sweet of them. After we ate cake, we had their first extra English class. The other day when they were over for computer class, Piya said to me, "Auntie, will you teach me, Mili, Arati and Prativa English?" I said, "what? You already have CRAWL English class! What would I teach? We do noun, verb, etc at school." Piya made a face. "Spoken English class." I agreed, though I wasn't really sure it would be much help. The classes are turning out to be less about actual spoken English. Piya and Mili read, focusing on correct pronounciation. Its cute that they're trying so hard though.
I just can't believe I leave in three weeks. Its unreal that its almost over. I've gotten so used to being here, it'll be a huge transition to go back home.

I'll try to write more for the next three weeks...
~m

Sunday, April 26, 2009

busy as a bee

Ok, I know, its been waaaay too long since I've posted. This is partially due to the fact that the internet has been exceptionally slow recently, and partially due to the fact that I've been really really busy. Obviously there's no way I can tell you everything that's happened, but I'll try to go over the high lights.
Last week all the volunteers took the girls on the train to Shodpur to go to a theater and watch a Bengali movie called Challenge. It was good, but of course there were no subtitles so I couldn't completely follow it. My favorite part of it was how enthusiastic the audience was. When the main character first came out, everyone clapped and cheered.
Summer camp continued. We had the last session today. The kids really loved it. Some of my favorite things we did were tie-dying and marbling paper.
We tried to bake cookies in a solar oven, but it totally didn't work. They were in the oven for 5 hours and they weren't even all the way done. The internet site said things would take about twice as long to cook. Bull.
I baked the rest of the dough at Subhamita's house the next day. Most people here don't have ovens, and no one, including Subhamita and Kakoli, had ever baked cookies before. The real cookies were a big hit though.
I went to the Nayak's house for dinner last week. (They are a family who lived in the US for a few years. I went to their house for dinner back in the fall) I wore a salwar and ate the food with my hands, which they were happy to see. They gave me the recipe for a paneer dish they served which is almost ecaxtly like my favorite dish at an Indian restaraunt back home.
I can't believe I have less than 5 weeks left here. Time just flies.

~m

Thursday, April 16, 2009

On Tuesday, I went to Babai's friend Sharvani's house for lunch, but I ended up staying there all afternoon. She is a really sweet girl, and I like hanging out with here. Also haning out with a group of friends my age is really nice. Lunch was huge and delicious. Everyone was delighted to watch me eat with my hands. We had rice, dal, okra curry, egg curry, paneer curry, cucumber salad, and tomato chutney. I had sweets upon arrival and ice cream for dessert. So I was STUFFED. Shravani is 20 but she sleeps with her mom in one room (in the same bed) and her dad sleeps in another room. This is so different from America! She told me she used to sleep alone, but then she had insomnia problems so now she sleeps with her mom again. But appartently her 23 year old boyfriend still sleeps with his mom too. And not for lack of space. Its so interesting. So strange to what I've known.
Wednesday was Bengali new year. (shubho naba boyar; happy new year!) In the morning, I wore a beautiful green sari which I borrowed from Bobby to school. I didn't wear it because of new year (rather because I complimented her on it and she asked if I'd like to wear it and I said yes) but it fit nicely with the holiday. It was fun getting all dressed up and wearing make up and jewellery. I wrapped the sari 100% by myself. Kakoli told me it was perfect. So that was exciting. For craft that day, the kids painted beautiful designs on handkerchiefs, and for GK we swabbed their cheeks and looked at their cells under a microscope. The boys thought it was really kool but the girls were uninterested.
In the afternoon, the girls came over to watch a movie. They rented Mon Mane Na, which is a really popular Bengali movie. Its actually not even out of theaters yet, but they had a bootleg version. The songs have been on the radio for months. It actually wasn't bad, and I love the whole soundtrack, so I really enjoyed it.
Piya told me to go shopping yesterday because for the puja (the new year) all of the shops were giving out sweets to their customers. So in the evening, after going to the Iway, I went to Piya's house and asked if she'd like to help me pick out some jewellery to give as a gift to one of my friends back home. She said yes, she would, so we went. We were indecisive and in the end, a man at the shop gave us a box of sweets and told us to come back another day when its less crowded. Then Piya asked me to walk around to the shops with Puja (her sister) and Kajal and Kajal's sister. Puja and Kajal were all dressed up and looking beautiful. Our first stop was the photo studio where they each got portraits taken. Then we walked around and browsed a little bit. Last, we walked to Manisha's house to tell Manisha's mom something (most of my students' families don't have phones).
As I was returning to the flat, I stopped to talk to Tabla Man's son, whom I hadn't seen in awhile. He's a nice kid.
Sanaa, a new volunteer who is Indian but has lived almost her whole life in the US arrived. She's 21 and she's really nice. Her boyfriend Abid (also American Indian) is staying at the guest house in Kolkata. They're here for three weeks. Its nice to be with some American young'ns.
At school today for GK we hooked up batteries to light bulbs with wire. The kids enjoyed it quite a bit. After that, we played BINGO and the kids won different prizes.
Its freakin hot here now, and its only supposed to get hotter. Today it was ungodly humid, and the power kept going out, which meant no fans. I sweat up a storm just sitting in a chair.

Still lovin' it here.

~m

Monday, April 13, 2009

Easter and such

On Saturday night I went to the big field with the girls. A huge screen and been erected and they were showing Bengali movies all night. I stayed only for an hour or so, but I think it went on for quite awhile, and possibly on more nights than just one. It was totally free. It felt like a drive-in without the cars. But it was kool to see that so much of the Khardah community turned out to watch movies together on the lawn. It was a real small town community event. I liked it.
Easter was a fun day. Sealdah went smoothly. Bobby and Arpita stopped by the flat in the morning just to visit. Bobby is always telling me that in India, its ok to drop by people's houses univited for a visit. In fact, people don't invite folks for a specific time, they just expect them to drop by when its convenient. But this is the opposite of how it is in the US, where its considered rude to just drop in on people. So I never do here. I wonder if part of why Bobby dropped by was to prove that its ok to do... Anyway, we enjoyed having her there.
The girls came for computer class. They finished reading the Wizard of Oz and started watching the movie (if you think we already did that, it was with a different class. A different group of students.) At school/camp, I did a GK on air pressure and the kids made their own barometers. Then we colored Easter eggs, which they really liked. They also made "collages" which were pieces of paper cut into shapes and glued to another paper to make a picture. They were cute though.
That evening, the other volunteers and I went out to eat at the Penguine Inn, which was yummy as always. On my way home from there, I ran into Riya, a girl a little older than me who lives in the same area as Piya and some of my other students. I invited her to the flat for a bit. She gladly came, and we all talked about movies, marriage, school, etc. She turns 19 soon, but she's been married since she was 16. Her husband's family is paying for her schooling now, so that's good, but she says sometimes she and her mother-in-law argue over whether she should stay in school. She wants to be a doctor. I hope she gets to, but as she said, a woman's place in India is at home.
Today I went into Kolkata and bought a whole bunch of Hindi and Bengali movies. The girls came over to watch one, and they chose to watch Welcome, a Bollywood movie starring most of the same cast as Singh is King. I liked it quite well, but the power went out just before the end. With nothing to do at the flat without power, I came here to the Iway. Hopefully by the time I return to the flat, it'll be back on. I have just under 7 weeks left here, and I'm starting to feel the pressure of everything I want to do here before I leave.

~m

Saturday, April 11, 2009

finally

Sorry I haven't written in so long. Once I get behind, I avoid writing because I have so much to say to catch up. So I'm not gonna do very much catching up. But here are the most recent occurrences:
Instead of having school, for the next three weeks (the current week included) we are doing "summer camp" with the school kids. This is because they are all currently on their equivalent of a summer break in the US from their Indian schools. So the camp runs from 10 to 1 and we do crafts and GK. Every GK is some kind of science experiment or fun activity.
A new volunteer named Michaela came on Sunday. She's from the Czech Republic, but she's lived in the US for the past 11 years. She's staying only for two weeks. She's kool. Then on Thursday, two Dutch women (friends travelling the world together) came. Their names are Tessa and Alie and they'll be here for 3 weeks. They're also really fun. All three of these women are over 30, so I am by far the youngest in the flat. That's ok though.
I went to Dum Dum for myfirst time ever since being in CRAWL on Thursday. Because of the altered schedule for summer camp, Dum Dum and school don't overlap. It was nice. Much fewer kids than Sealdah and much less hectic. Everyone is more polite and things feel more organized. More gentle. I am still partial to Sealdah though, because I know all of the people there. I know I would grow to love Dum Dum in the same way if I went consistently, but I will only be going for three weeks, and maybe only one day in each week. We'll see.
At summer camp, we've painted clay vases, made dry flower boquets (which involved painting dry coconut flowers and turned out beautiful), made wall hangings, and decorated big sheets of paper on which we will put a small poem or drawing from each student. For the GK part, we've made mold gardens, played with a parascope, grown (or are in the process of growing) sugar crystals, and talked about taste and taste maps (ya know those maps of the tongue that show which part is responsible for which taste? Well it turns out its a myth, but we had the kids taste sweet, salty, sour and bitter things anyways, and they tried to decide which part of the tongue tasted those the most. It didn't work very well...)
Sealdah has been empty the past two Fridays, but its been really fun on the weekends. I just love taking the kids to wash and brush their teeth. Its involvement with them a new level. They appreciate it so much too. And they're all so sweet. Also, because my Bengali is improving, I can talk to them a fair amount now, which is really fun.
I have just under seven weeks left until I leave, which is really unbelievable.

~m

Monday, March 30, 2009

Varanasi

Varanasi was great. Its not a very large city, especially compared to Kolkata. But I stayed mostly in the tourist Old City area, which added to the effect of it being small. The Old City is the part of the city near the ghats; near the Ganges. It consists of teeny, winding alleys, in which Nienke and I got lost several times. Even rickshaws are too large for these alleys, but its illegal for them to enter them anyways. There was, like everywhere in India, an abundance of cows. Perhaps this was just more noticeable in Varanasi because one has to squeeze ones self to the side of the wall to allow a cow to pass in an alley.
One night, Nienke and I went to the daily puja (worship) that is performed just after sunset at one of the largest ghats. (Ghats, for those of you who don't know, are steps leading down into the water. In this case, into the Ganges.) We paid to sit on a man's boat and watch from the water, since the priests face the river. Five holy men in organge robes performed the puja. It involved lots of chanting and incence and fire. Despite the fact that I couldn't understand what was being said, it was beautiful to watch.
One morning we got up extra early to take a boat ride on the Ganges at sunrise. We watched hundreds of people bathing in the sacred waters and the golden sunlight. It was gorgeous. That was actually my favorite part of the trip.
Varanasi is used to a high volume of tourists, both Indian and international. There was a higher concentration of foreigners there than anywhere else I've been in India. Nienke and I always wore salwars, which scored us points with the locals. Most foreigners wear baggy ali babba pants and have a "dirty hippy" look to them.
Nienke and I spent alot of time at a bakery which catered to tourists. We lounged for hours at a time on the cushions and low tables (ok, not on the tables themselves) eating good Western food and talking to people from all over the place. It was nice to chill in such a Western enviornment for a change.
I took the train back to Kolkata alone. I sat in a compartment with two families: one with a mother, father, son, and grandma; and one with a mother, father and two daughters. A man travelling alone also shared our compartment. The grandma was a really sweet old woman who didn't speak any English. I siezed my opportunity to practise Bengali, and was able to communicate basic things to her. The son, his father, and the man decided to play cards, and they invited me to play also. Grandma supervised my playing (pulling cards from my hand and putting them on the "table" before I could decide what to do) until one of the men went to smoke and she could play her own hand. The game was called 28, and it was quite like Euchre. It was fun. They ended up not serving dinner on the train, so everyone pitched in to feed me. Grandma's family gave me veg biriyani, the girls' family gave me a sweet and the man gave me some fruit cake. Indian hospitality is unbeatable.
It was a great trip.

~m

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Visag

The trip to Visag was great! We took an overnight train leaving Howrah station late Friday night and we arrived in Visag early Saturday afternoon. While in Visag, we visited RK Beach, the main beach of Visag City; the zoo (nothing interesting to report there); Kailasagiri Hill, a big hill with a passenger ropeway kinda like a ski lift to the top, and with a path that stops at many scenic turnouts; Simhachalam Temple, a huge beautiful temple up on a mountain; and Rishikonda beach, a more secluded beach about 8km North of the city. We stayed at a resort on Rishikonda for two days. It was absolutely fabulous. We had a balcony with a great view of the Bay of Bengal, and we spent many hours sitting out there reading, eating and relaxing in the shade when it was too hot on the beach. Visag is no Goa, so we couldn't run around in bikinis or anything. We always stayed fully clothed, but we would roll up our salwar pants to our knees and walk along the shore. The water was so warm and inviting, I just wanted to swim! I really could have, if I had gone in fully clothed, but I didn't want to do that. It was still great just walking in the water and relaxing on the beach though. I had a fabulous time!
Takin a train to Varanasi tonight.
~m

Thursday, March 19, 2009

St Patrick's Day isn't celebrated at all in India. I talked to Nienke, a dutch volunteer about it, and it turns out it isn't celebrated much in most of Europe either. It must just be an American and an Irish thing... Anyway, I wore a green salwar so I was sure not to get pinched by any stray leprechauns. Nienke and I went to New Market so she could get a few things before her trip, and them we met up with Babai and his friend Puru at Dum Dum. We took a train ride to the Dakshineswar Kali Temple (also known to CRAWL volunteers as the monkey temple, because of the many monkeys on the grounds). We made an offereing of sweets and flowers to Kali, and walked around the temple complex. The main temple there is for Kali, but there are also 12 smaller temples, all of which are for Lord Siva. Monkeys and cows roam the surrounding gardens and devotees bathe, pray, and wash laundry etc. on the ghats. We spent awhile just taking in the sights. A street boy came up to us on the ghats and we thumb wreslted with him and took his picture. The other people there were really amused to see foreigners playing with this boy. When we were ready to leave, he unsurprisingly but sadly, began begging us for money. We didn't give him anything; I never do. Because of the work I do at Sealdah, I can walk away from these situations feeling generally guilt free.
Anyway, after we left the ghat, we boarded a small ferry to the Belur Math. We arrived in time to enter the temple (for Ramkrishna) and sit down with hundreds of other people for the singing of prayers. Monks at the front of the temple sang, and some of the congregants joined in, but most just listened. Everyone sat on the floor, but men and women sat in separate sections. We arrived just before the singing started, so there wasn't any space for us to sit. Seeing us standing off to the side, the women at the edge of the group squeezed in to make room for Nienke and me. The hospitality (of the women and children, at least) here is so amazing. Other foreigners and I get stared at where ever we go. Some people take this for hostility, but in fact it is usually just unguarded curiosity. The people are so welcoming and so excited to see foreigners. This is of course more true in Khardah than in Kolkata; more true on the train than the metro. Children come up to me where ever I am to say hi and shake my hand. Women stare at me, and when they notice me watching, they break into huge smiles. People are always curious and friendly; they ask me where I'm from and why I'm here. I have been invited to innumerable strangers' houses for a meal. Of course I never go, but the intentions are always welcoming and friendly. The sweet treatment that I get from the women and children here more than compensates for the usual harassment and annoyances I endure from the men.
Anyway, we sat and listened to the singing for about 15 minutes before Babai waved to us to go. We left prematurely (the singing goes on for nearly an hour) and walked around the grounds a little. We went to a tea stall at the side of the road and had some tea before taking the ferry back across the river, and taking a taxi home. (Trains at night are best avoided.)
At school yesterday, I had the intermediate and advanced groups together because no one has come to fill Lauren's place yet. Attendance was low because final exams are going on in the public schools now. (In fact, none of my students will be attending CRAWL school for the next two weeks because of exams. This coincides perfectly with my trips to Visag and Varanasi.) Instead of trying to run two separate lessons, I decided to just do one class that incorporated math and English. Drawing inspiration from my high school Humanities classes (thanks, Mrs Young!) I decided to have the kids play jeapordy. Prior to class, I wrote out math and English questions to correspond with each category and point value. The kids didn't take long to catch on, and they loved it! I was so pleased with how well it went. They payed full attention and really tried to get the answers. There's no motivator like a little healthy competition.
Yesterday afternoon, Nienke and I went to Kolkata's other prominent Kali Temple, in South Kolkata, in Kalighat. A priest gave us a tour of the temple and the ghat and requested a donation, which we gave. We also offered flowers to Kali. The current temple was built in the 1600s, but the sacred location is much older. Currently, the temple's facade is a tile mosaic donated by an Italian holy man. Its beautiful.
Today at the school, the kids replied to letters written to them by an elementary school class in Oregon. One of the previous volunteer's mother works at that school. I thought it was so neat that each of those classes is getting pen pals in another country. My students weren't quite so enthusiastic. They did like writing the letters, but they just failed to see how kool it is. Haha. I made sure to have them all write their names in Hindi or Bengali (whichever they use) as well as English. Those American kids will think that's so neat. Well, I would have if I were them... They wrote about their favorite food and their hobbies and their families. They also drew pictures. I'm still excited about it now, haha.
In the second hour of class, we had a birthday party for the Feb and March birthdays. Animesh was my only student with a birthday during that time. Rinki and Dhunanjoy ( 4 or 5 yr old twins) and Preeti (7 yr old girl) also had theirs. They all got a new outfit, and we had cake and chips to eat. It was fun.
Tonight Nienke and I are having Bobby over to the flat for a pasta dinner, European style. She already told us that she only wants a small amount of food (haha). I'm sure she thinks we're utterly incapable of cooking. It'll be interesting to see how she likes it though. I'm excited.
Tomorrow night, Nienke and I will take an over night train to Visag, a beach south of Kolkata in Andhra Pradesh. We'll spend three days there before coming back to Kolkata.

~m

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Sealdah

Sealdah today was so much fun!
We gave out toothbrushes and toothpaste when we went to wash the kids' hands and faces. They were so excited. Something which we take completely for granted in the US was so exciting and special to these children. Imagine not being able to afford a tooth brush. Many people in America can't afford to visit the dentist, but everyone brushes their teeth. We told the kids to bring their tooth brush with them every Saturday and Sunday morning, and we'll give them tooth paste to brush with. Its not possible to distribute tubes of toothpaste to them every week. But this way they can brush with water (still exponentially better than not brushing) on the days we aren't there, and they can brush with toothpaste on the days we are there.
We gave out the usual Sunday morning milk, cereal and biscuits this morning (on friday we give chapatti -think tortilla- and potato curry, and on Saturday we give hard boiled eggs and cheese and biscuit sandwiches). For the past few Sundays, we've been bringing jump ropes for the kids to play with. They absolutely love it.
There is a little boy whose parents are both dead. He is only 10 and he lives all alone at the station. I don't know where he gets his food. He wears a shirt which is absolutely huge on him. Today we brought him a shirt which is actually his size. It has red and white stripes, with a white collar. He was so excited when we gave it to him. He ran away to go change (its amazing that he maintains modesty in his situation. So many of the kids at Sealdah run around completely naked) and came back strutting. He was so overjoyed. It was heartbreaking, but everything about Sealdah is. Later, I saw him hiding his old shirt behind a fence in the station. This is not an uncommon occurrence. We arrive very early in the morning, and I've often seen people roll up the tarps and blankets they sleep on, and throw them onto a roof for safekeeping during the day. They don't have one square foot of space which is actually theirs.

~m

Friday, March 13, 2009

Holi pics

paint for sale

action shot






war paint...




Piya and me








Nienke and me




the crew





Manisha and me - that's the difference between wet and dry Holi paint




the clean up begins...

Prativa and me. She worked so hard to get and stay clean, and that photo ruined it.


clean face... pink hands. They're still pink even now.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Holi

Holi is a great holiday! I wish we had it in the US. It reminded me of being younger and having water fights with my brothers and cousins in the back yard.
For a few days before holi, there were stalls on the street selling every imaginable color of powder paint, as well as masks, hats and squirt guns. On Tuesday night, the night before Holi, Lauren and I bought little bags of six colors of paint. Originally, Holi was played with only pink and red powder paint, but now it is played with virtually every color, and with water and liquid paints as well.
On Wednesday morning, I had to go out to buy milk for breakfast. I had no idea what I would find. I dressed in clothes I had decided to sacrifice to Holi: a white t-shirt (all the better to see the colors) and some blue scrubs. I walked outside and the streets were splattered with all colors of paint. There were paint-drenched children running about, chasing eachother. People mix the powdered paint with water in buckets and then squirt it at eachother. Its much more permanent when wet. As I was nearing the main road, a man and his son walked by (they were both purple from head to toe) and said to me, "return!" meaning, "don't go out, you'll get painted!" I smiled and continued on my way. Lots of people eyed me uncertainly in my pristine garb. They clearly wanted to paint me, but didn't have the nerve. My luck changed when I passed one of the paint stalls. A vendor called out to me, "good morning, ma'am!" and then got me full in the face with pink powder. Another vendor tagged the back of my head with yellow. I didn't even try to resist.
Nearly all of the shops were closed (except for a few essentials, like the dairy store), and the streets were nearly deserted. (Consider the fact that I live in India, one of the most densely populated places on earth. There were not many people out, relatively speaking.) Everyone who was out was painted in some way. Many people just had a few streaks of red on their face, to prevent the attacks they would get if they weren't painted at all. Kind of like how people wear green on St Patrick's Day.
On my way home, after getting painted by the vendors, I was suddenly fair game for everyone to hit me. A few boys squirted me near the flat. I gave the milk to Lauren, went back outside and hit them with orange paint before running back inside.
Nienke, Lauren and I decided to wait until the afternoon to go out and play. This ended up being a mistake. As it turns out, most of the playing goes on in the morning. We got all ready by putting on lots of lotion and oil so the paint would wash off easily. When we went out in the afternoon, the streets were completely deserted. Had we gone out in the morning, we could have played with the neighborhood children, but we missed out chance. When we went out, we played just between the three of us. We got thoroughly covered despite our small numbers.
We went back inside to clean up before the kids came over to say bye to Lauren (she left early this morning). When the kids came, it was apparent they had been playing all day. We had been forbidden by Subhamita to go to Prativa's house to play with them. She said it would not be safe for us. I don't know how true that is, I think she was more concerned about the perception of CRAWL with the volunteers running around acting crazy. Anyway, most of the kids were slightly discolored, but Binda hadn't yet washed. She was bright pink!
The kids brought cards and a few gifts (sweets and a windchime) for Lauren. It was really sweet. I was surprised by their lack of sentimentality. Lauren had been here for four months, and the kids really liked her. But they did not appear upset by her departure. I know they are very used to people coming in and out all the time, and they have become desensitized to people leaving as a way to protect themselves. But I guess I still expected a little more emotion than they showed.
The kids had told us that they would come play Holi with us on Thursday, but as they were leaving Wednesday night, they said they couldn't come. (Bengali Holi was on the 11th, Hindustani Holi on the 12th. The government of West Bengal gave the holiday for the 11th, but CRAWL had both days off) Nienke and I decided that we would just go get the kids on Thursday, and tell them to come play with us.
As it turned out, there was no need. Whether they actually changed their minds, or whether they had said they weren't coming just to trick us, I don't know, but at about 10:30 this morning, they showed up at our door. Nienke and I had just finished breakfast (Lauren left around 6:45 am) and were still in our pajamas. I hadn't even put my contacts in yet. Piya stood at the gate and I immediately shied away. "No color!" They shouted. They said they had just come to return my hat. Nienke and I were not so easily fooled. We hastily changed into our Holi clothes from the day before, and gathered our paint. This time we did not think about lotion or oil. We went outside and immediately began throwing paint. Some of the students fought back (they had all brought their own paint with them) and some scattered. I chased some of them out to the main road, but lost sight of them (I still was not wearing contacts). Arati joined me and told me where they had gone. We cornered Kajal and Prativa in a side alley and blasted them. Then we all ran back towards the flat, still throwing and ducking paint. The people on the street were quite amused to see colorfully painted white girls sprinting down the street after little (equally colorfully painted) Indian children. Remember, for most people here Holi was already over. It's a one day holiday, and we were a day late. We continued playing and fighting outside the flat, and eventually a crowd of my neighbors grew. We were creating quite a bit of noise. People were staning in windows and on porches to watch. There were about 15 men and boys gathered at the end of the lane. One of my neighbors (whose anniversary party I went to) stepped out of his house to watch. I spotted him and tossed some paint at him, giving him a light sprinkling of red. He looked a little taken aback, but mostly amused. I'm still afraid he will try to get me back before the day is over.
One man came up to me and poured some of his left-over green metallic paint in one of my hands, and water in the other. I got three students with it.
We took lots of photos, and then eventually went inside to clean up. The girls managed to splatter red water everywhere, and so I spent the next few hours after they left cleaning. It was totally worth it though. It was so much fun!
Modern Holi paint is said to be extremely toxic, containing all sorts of harmful chemicals and sometimes even glass and fiberglass. Only the traditional abir paint is definitely safe. When we bought our paint, the vendor told me it was all abir, but I had no way to know if he was telling the truth. So far, I haven't had any reactions, but many people have told me that they always get a rash after Holi. I was surprised by how easily the paint washed off though. Dry paint washes much easier than wet though, and yesterday's oil and lotion made the job easy. Today we played harder and without the oil, so it didn't wash as well. I got the paint almost completely off, except my palms and the bottoms of my feet are still bright pink. I don't mind it though. I'm just happy I don't have a green face.
I'll put pictures up soon.
~m

Sunday, March 8, 2009

At school on Friday I gave a test to the advanced students. I haven't graded it yet but I think the majority of them did pretty well. With the intermediate kids, I did a small unit on measurement. After we measured a few flat, boring objects, they measured their feet and then they took string and measured the distance around their wrists, ankles, heads and waists. The kids really enjoyed it.
Sealdah on Friday was fun. We just roamed to hand out food. We fed 70 kids. A few weeks ago, one of the volunteers left a salwar that she had bought but didn't want to keep. I said I wanted it, but then I decided to give it to someone at Sealdah instead. I gave it to my favorite girl, Puja. I've talked about her before. She's 15 (maybe 16 by now), married, and has a nearly one-year-old child. I'm sure the salwar will be far too big for her since it was a little big on me. But she'll appreciate it so much more than I ever would have. She didn't come to Sealdah on Saturday and Sunday, so I haven't seen her wearing it yet.
Sealdah was good on Saturday and Sunday as well. The usual coloring, washing, food distribution. There hasn't been very much wound care recently, which I'm happy with. I know its good work, but I really don't like it. It grosses me out. We played with the jump ropes again this morning, which the kids loved.
For "computer" class on Saturday, the boys wanted to make lassis. For those who don't know, lassis are a yogurt drink which are really popular in India. I told them that we could do this if they then wrote down the directions for making them in English. They agreed. So we had a fun, out of the box class. The lassis themselves were mediocre at best. The boys didn't really have any idea what they were doing, I think. We had all the ingredients right, but in the wrong proportions. Joy added way too much water, so they were too thin. They tasted alright, but the texture was wrong... I think I could make them properly now if I tried though. So that's nice.
At craft, we finished making the puppets we started last week.
My phone got stolen on Friday, so after class on Saturday, Bobby and I went to the police station to get an order to block the SIM. (Bobby came to help translate) Also with the paper they gave me, I can get a duplicate SIM with the same balance. India is so different from the US in this way, its crazy. In America, I think the police don't give a damn about peoples' cell phones. You can go to Walmart and buy a prepaid phone and that's that. But here you have to submit a photo, a photocopy of an ID, a permanent address. And the police have to order the stopping of the SIM. But it's what the process was at the police station that was so amusing to me. Bobby and I waited in line for nearly an hour. When we got to the front, the man told us to write out a report saying I'd lost my phone. We went across the street and bought a piece of paper for half a rupee. Then the officer dictated to me what to write. It was so hilarious and dramatic. "I, blah blah, daughter of blah, residing at blah, unfortunately lost my mobile, model # blah, SIM # blah, while at Raharabazar (not true) on 7/3/09 (it happened on 6/3/09). Given the above circumstances, I kindly request you to make a log of this in your diary. Thanking you, Maura Farrell" Then the officer wrote something down in his book, stamped my paper, wrote a number on it, and I was on my way. I just have to submit that paper with the stamp at a Vodaphone store, and I'll get a new SIM.
The police station itself kind of remided me of something in an old Western movie. There was one main room, with smaller offices off of it. There were two desks in the middle of the room, with officers seated, helping people who were in line. At the back of the room were two jail cells, one for men, one for women (the women one was empty). The detainees were just standing at the bars, listening and watching everything that happened. I could see a small chalk board hanging with a name, a number, and "THIEF" written on it. I'm sure that's what they have the prisoners hold when they take their mug shots.
I stopped by Piya's house on my way home to get a list of ingredients from her so her computer class could make something also. I wanted to go quickly because a previous volunteer was at the flat and I wanted to talk to him some before he left. But of course Piya's family insisted that I sit down and have some tea. I felt so bad when they asked me about what had happened and I told them about 1200 rupees (maybe $23) and my phone had been stolen, and acting like it wasn't a big deal. That is a fortune for them.
Today Piya, Arati and Kajal made suji at "computer class". I don't really know what it is in English, but its quite like cream of wheat. The ingredients are milk, butter, sugar, suji (this a grain of some sort that I guess is a close relative or the same as what is used in cream of wheat), cashews and raisins. It was really good.
At GK, we watched more of the Ganges documentary. The DVD player was giving me hell, so we didn't finish it today like I thought we would. We'll finish next week. Today was Lauren's last day of Sealdah and school. She leaves on Thursday morning, but Wednesday and Thursday are Holi festival, so there are no projects on that day. The kids all made nice cards for her. She'll see all of the girls and some of the boys at least once more though. Even so, it was really sad. I'm sad to see her go, but also her leaving makes me think about what it will be like for me to leave. I can't even imagine it. It will be hard.

~m

Friday, March 6, 2009

Thailand photos


Wat Phra Kaew

reclining Buddha


Wat Phra Kaew



Wat Phra Kaew




Thai food... they had the strangest desserts





me with Om, her parents, her friends, her sister, and her sister's friends






Buddhist shrine in a mangrove forest







Pattaya beach








Thursday, March 5, 2009

On Tuesday, Lauren and I went to South City Mall and went shopping. I got two shirts and a churidar. They were 60% and 40% off. It was sweet...
On Wednesday, school was fine. I played cabardee with the kids in the afternoon, which was fun. Its a game similar to tag which is really popular in Bengal. In the evening, the other volunteers and I went salwar shopping with Bobby. I bought two kits, which I'll take to the tailor tomorrow. I'm trying to wear Indian clothes as much as possible.
Today school was fine. The advanced kids finished up correcting their packets that I'd left them when I was in Thailand. They'll have a test tomorrow. I was stalling with the intermediate kids. I had wanted to start a new unit, but when I went to make xeroxes last night, the power went out. So we converted improper fractions to mixed numbers. We played cabardee again this afternoon. Its getting hot here. Manisha and Prativa came over for computer class. We were gonna finish watching the Wizard of Oz, but the power was out, so we kinda just sat around. There wasn't really enough light to read, and none of us felt like doing that anyway, haha.
I'm making quite a bit of progress on my Bengali, which is exciting. I'm finally able to conjugate verbs. I can follow alot of what people are saying.
Sorry this was a scattered, low-interest post.
~m

Monday, March 2, 2009

Sealdah on Saturday was fine, fairly regular. After Sealdah, Nienke and I took a cab to Sudder St (the backpacker area of Kolkata) to pick up our train tickets. When Nienke finished volunteering, we're gonna take an overnight train to a beach south of Kolkata. It'll be really fun. Back to the city, and then Nienke will be off on a few weeks of travelling by train.
I took the boys to the Iway for computer class. They e-mailed previous volunteers and looked at wintry photos of my house in the States. Then I showed them Khardah on Google maps. They thought it was so kool.
At craft class we began making little cardboard puppets with moveable limbs. When you pull a string, their arms and legs flail. They're really cute. We'll finish them next week.
After craft, I went over to Bobby's for the first time in a long time. We had tea and talked and she showed me a new sari she'd bought. The design was all hand-stitched embroidery and it was beautiful.

Sealdah was great on Sunday. We brought little gifts for the kids which we handed out with the food. They got to choose between a ring, a badge and a necklace. We also brought jump ropes, which we let the kids play with while we did wound care. We had two single-person ropes and one big one. The kids absolutely loved them! They had never before encountered the big ropes where two people twirl and one or more people jump. It took them awhile to get the hang of it, but they did eventually. One boy in particular was really good. It was so much fun to play with them.
The girls came over for computer class. I had promised Mili that we could listen to Mon Mane Na (a really popular Bengali song) I played it for them, and class quickly dissolved into everyone singing and dancing to Hindi and Bengali music. Nienke got out her camcorder and I took some photos as well. Computer class didn't really happen. But I figure fifteen years from now they won't remember how to do some random thing on a computer, but they will remember that fun day.
For GK we watched the second part of a documentary on the Ganges. We watch it in Bengali with English subtitles. Its a really big hit compared to the lessons we usually do.

Today the girls came over to watch a Bengali movie with our projector. I don't remember the name, but it was really dramatic and crazy. It was extremely amusing, even though I couldn't understand most of what was said.
~m

Friday, February 27, 2009

funerals, wizards and tests

Last week, Bobby's neighbor passed away. On Wednesday we were invited to go over to his house for the memorial. Subhamita came with us. We bought flowers and sweets which we put on the altar (beautifully decorated with flowers) they had set up for him. Then we sat down to visit with the family and they served us sweets. They invited us to come to the memorial dinner that night. It was at a building just beside the school which is also used to host wedding parties. There was another altar for him set up there, also decoated with white flowers.
The meal was delicious, and huge. We had stuffed kulcha (a fried flat bread with potatos and spices in it), about four different kinds of curry, cucumber salad, chutney, chops (breaded, deep fried things - usually potato or fish, but in this case beet - which are kind of similar to hush puppies) two kinds of sweets, and ice cream. And, with the exception of the ice cream, we of course ate it all with our hands. I did much better than I did last time.
The man who died was only 58, and in fact he was the last person I talked to in Khardah before I went to Thailand. He owned the van which Bobby hired to take me to the airport. So I knew him, and I knew his daughter, Bobby's friend. That is to say I was acquainted with them. But the other volunteers didn't really know them at all. Its interesting to see the difference in the ways cultures deal with death. In America, when someone dies, close friends and family come to mourn. Unless the person was a public figure, stangers do not attend the memorial services. I know Bobby's neighbor's were just trying to be friendly. They invited perfect strangers to the memorial services. Of course we weren't involved or present for the more intimate parts of the funeral process. It seems to me that for the dinner though, its viewed as a party and therefore the more the merrier. Interersting cultural difference. I was happy for the invite though.

On a completely different note, Manisha and Prativa began watching The Wizard of Oz for computer class yesterday. They read the book in class, so now they get to watch the movie. They really like it so far. It was really fun to share something which is so embedded in American culture with them.

Today I gave a test on adding, subtracting, multiplying and dividing fractions to the intermediate group. At first they couldn't remember how to do anything (solely because it was a test; they could do it all yesterday) but after a little help from me, they did really well. The scores were 92%, 80% and 83%. Suraj will have to take it next week because he wasn't there today, but I am sure he'll do really well. He's great at math. And Sayani doesn't come anymore, so that's all. All really good scores. I am so pleased!!

~m

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Kolkata ft Mc Donald's

Today Nienke and I went into Kolkata. First, we went to the American Library of Kolkata, which I bought a membership to at the Kolkata Book Fair a few weeks ago. The security was crazy. There were armed soldiers outside and we had to go through metal detectors and get out bags x-rayed. The selection was, to me, a little disappointing. I had anticipated a library like one I would go to in the US. But it makes sense that this one isn't like that. Its more geared towards people who want to learn about America than about providing an American experience. Their fiction section was only old classics. They didn't have the Wizard of Oz movie (they had had it, but it was lost). What they had was mostly informational books about the US. So its good for what it is, but not what I had wanted. Oh well. I'll probably go back a few more times before I leave.
They recently opened a McDonald's on Park Street. There was a big poster on the front for chapatti aloo tikka. It piqued Nienke's and my curiosity, so we decided to go in. It was the nicest McDonald's I have ever seen. There was marble (or maybe granite, but real stone either way) on some of the walls. There were pillars and trellaces which gave it a garden-y feeling. Nienke and I were standing looking dumbfounded and a woman came up and asked us if we'd like a tour of the kitchen. We said sure! She gave us hair nets to wear. Its probably the cleanest McDonald's in existence. They had separate preparation counters and deep fryers for veg and non veg items. There were of course no hamburgers on the menu because cows are sacred in Hinduism so its like atrocious to serve beef. There were chicken and fish sandwiches, as well as veggie burgers (correct me if I'm wrong, but Mcy D's doesn't do a veggie burger in the US). There was a paneer salsa wrap and chapatti aloo tikka (spicy potato burger). They of course had french fries and soft-serve ice cream. Nienke got a chicken sandwich and I got a "veg surprise" which is a veggie burger with a spicy cheesy sauce and onions and tomato and we split an order of fries. My burger was pretty good. Nice n' fattening. And the fries were exactly the same as in the US. Nice change of flavors anyway. We finished off the meal with ice cream. Usually I think its dispicable when tourists go to McDonald's abroad. Why go somewhere exotic and then eat the same damn thing you can get in America? But this was so different that we just had to try it. Intersting little adventure.
We browsed at Music World and at Oxford Bookstore for awhile, then walked to the Kolkata Panorama, a musuem which chronicles the history of Calcutta through multimedia exhibits. It was pretty neat, but unfortunately the guides and the recordings were so fast that I missed alot of the information.
~m

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Thailand

Thailand was so much fun! Bangkok especially is very Westernized. It almost felt like going back to America. The traffic was motorized, the streets were clean, the electricity never went out, women wore pants (or shorts and tank tops). There are 7 elevens EVERYWHERE. From the street Om lives off of, you can stand in one place and see three 7 elevens.
Om lives in a dorm room-style apartment with her friend Keau, who also did an exchange year in the US. Their apartment looks exactly like a stereotypical American dorm room, except its a little larger. I spent lots of time just chillin' with Om and her friends. We went to Khao San road, the big backpacker and tourist area. Most of them had never been before. It was neat. Lots of really cute things for sale. We went swimming in a public pool up the street from Om's apartment. I swam in a bikini. Just like in America, no one cared. We went shopping in a few Bangkok's abundant malls. Thailand is a shopper's heaven. There's so much cute stuff (clothes especially) for so cheap. Luckily I only had a very small duffel with me, or I would have bought the whole country.
Thai people are very friendly. The culture is much calmer than Indian culture, but I think that's true everywhere. Most people in Bangkok spoke really good English, but its actually easier to get by with English in India where people don't speak it as well because the Thais are very unconfident in their speaking. They're shy.
Having lived in India for five months, I have adopted the mannerisms here. I bobble my head when I'm excited and I nod to the side as a greeting, to say yes, and to say thankyou. Thai people do not. I felt so handicapped in my ability to communicate. I would not thankyou or hello and would recieve no response. By the end of the week, I was beginning to do it the right way for Thailand, but I really had to think about it. Thai people give a very forceful nod forwards in greeting and especially when saying thankyou.
On a day Om had class, I went on a group tour to Ayutthaya, North of Bangkok, to see temples, some in ruins. I met a really nice Turkish woman on the trip, and we got drinks (coconuts) together when we got back to Bangkok. The temples were really beautiful. The first one we visited had the largest bronze Buddha, and old temple ruins. The next one we went to had a reclining Buddha and a very beautiful temple. The third and final place we visited was a whole complex built by the Chinese. The temple was so intricate. It had hand-painted tiles and really detailed furniture and things. It was beautiful. We went back to Bangkok not on a coach, but on a river cruise boat. As in India, teeny dwellings huddled in the shadows of huge shiny buildings. But the contrast wasn't as great as in India.
On another day when Om had classes, I went on a group tour to Pattaya, a beach south of Bangkok. It was really beautiful. White sand, bright blue water. I went parasailing. It was kind of a rip-off. 500 Baht (maybe $15) for only a few minutes in the air. But I had really wanted to do it when I was younger, so I thought I'd sieze my opportunity. It was fun, especially the take-off. We were at the beach for 4 or 5 hours. I put on sunscreen when we first arrived, and reapplied once. Mistake. I have never been this sunburnt in my life. The beach was hot, but there was a nice, cooling breeze and I spent a good hour in the water. I did not even notice I was burning.
One day Om and I went to the Grand Palace and some of the major wats (temples) in Bangkok. They were probably the most beautiful buildings I have ever seen in my life. So intricate. I'll upload some photos this week. At one smaller temple, off the beaten tourist track, we stopped to make a donation. Buddhists will regularly go to temples and buy supplies for a monk (robes, a bucket, and food). We did this, and the monk gave us a blessing and sprinkled holy water on us. Of course I have no idea what he said because it was all in Thai. All the monks there were really amused to see me there. I don't think they get very many foreigners there. At another temple, I did my horoscope. The way it works is you take a cup with all of these sticks with numbers on them in it. You shake the cup until one of the sticks falls out. Then you take these wooden blocks which are rounded on one side and flat on the other. You pray, then throw them in the air. You have three chances for them to land such that one is flat-side up and one is round side up. If they don't land like this in your three throws, then you don't take your horiscope that day. If on one of the tries they do land like this, then you go to a cabinet with numbered drawers and you take a piece of paper from the drawer with the number of your stick on it. On the paper is your horiscope. Alas, my blocks did not land the right way, so I didn't get a horiscope.
Another day Om and I went to a floating market. We got on a boat and floated through canals, pulling up to shops on land. It was totally tourist-oriented with only food and souveniers for sale, but it was fun nonetheless.
On Friday I went to Om's university with her. Because she is in a tourism track, all of her classes are in English. Her first class was about enviornmental sustainability. The lecture that day was about the Millenium Development Goals of the UN. I find them to be really interesting, but the students were totally uninterested. The professor wasn't very exciting to listen to, so I guess I can understand.
Om's second class was on cultural diversity, but it was cancelled that day because the professor had something else she had to do. So Om, three of her friends (Mey, Fern, and Peh) and I took a three hour bus ride to Om's home town, which is actually one of the largest cities in Thailand. I forget the name of it. We met her parents and little sister for dinner, and spent the night at her parent's house. The next day we drove to the town where Om's mother grew up and we visited some beautiful palace ruins and a park with a great banyan tree. In the middle of the Banyan forest was a temple. I did my horiscope again and this time the blocks fell the right way. However, my horoscope was very inauspicious, so, in keeping with the Buddhist tradition, I left it at the temple to leave my bad luck there as well.
Thai food is very delicious. There is fresh fruit for sale everywhere. Two of my favorite things I tried were unripe mango slices which you dip in chilli sugar, and ripe mango served with sticky rice and coconut milk (can you tell I like mango?) Thai food is very heavy on pork and fish, so there wasn't a whole lot I could eat as a vegetarian. I had lots of pad thai, and lots of fried rice. I also had spicy green papaya salad with sticky rice a few times. It was all delicious. Indians cook their food for a very long time. Thai food is not nearly so done. I loved all the fresh vegetables (I even had a few green salads, which I don't eat in India for fear of parasites).
It was a fabulous trip; I had so much fun. I could have enjoyed staying a bit longer, but I am happy to be back. I of course missed my students. They were pretty happy to see me today, and I was happy to see them too.
Great vacation!!
~m

Friday, February 13, 2009

Off to Thailand

Tomorrow morning I am flying to Thailand. I have to leave India to renew my visa, because with a tourist visa I can only stay in the country for 180 days at a time, even though the visa is valid for 5 years. So anyway, I'm gonna be staying with my friend Om who was an exchange at my high school. I'll be there for 8 days. I'm so excited!

School was pretty good this week; things are going well.

~m

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

I didn't go into Kolkata this "weekend". Jen, one of the volunteers, had an appendicitis (idk how to spell that) and she came back to the flat yesterday. She is doing pretty well, considering the circumstances. But she's in alot of pain, I think. She is being really stoic about it.
Anyway, pretty much my whole day yesterday was devoted to getting her home. It was way more trouble than necessary, because all sorts of small problems kept arising. But in the end it all worked out.
Today Bobby went to Dum Dum with Sabine, the new volunteer from Germany. So Lauren, Nienke and I were on our own at school. Bobby had obviously threatened the students and told them to be good, because they were on their best behavior. With Bobby gone, we decided to spice things up, and we played charades. They weren't allowed to speak in Bengali, only English. To our immense disappointment, the kids didn't rise to the occassion. They really have almost no creativity. One of them would go up to act something out (we had things like Maura Auntie, a sad person, a tiger, and Gandhiji written on paper that they pulled from a bag) and they would just say "no, Auntie." They didn't even try. So eventually we gave up and went back to doing regular class.
I started pre-algebra with the advanced group, and they did pretty well. They all tried and paid attention, so I was happy. We did things like 4ab + 3a - 2b - 3ab -2a + 4b.
On Saturday I'm going to Thailand, so I'm really excited.

~m

Saturday, February 7, 2009

School was kind of empty, but pretty good this week. Half of the intermediate group is working on adding fractions with uncommon denominators, and the other half has moved on to multiplying fractions. The advanced group went over problems involving negative numbers, but by Friday I was spinning my wheels. I have completed the syllabus for the advanced group. Next week, S and K and I will make a new one. I want to do simple algebra with them. I love algebra, I'm excited.
Sealdah was empty as usual on Friday. We roamed around to give out food. Today was really busy. We had to buy extra food to feed everyone. I played with a bunch of kids for an extra long time today. It was nice, they loved it. One girl has always had a puppy with her for the past month or two, but today we got there and the puppy was dead on the sidewalk. The girl didn't seem too upset. I guess that's a good thing, but it shows how adjusted she is to a hard life. Shit happens and she knows it.
There will be no Sealdah tomorrow because Jen, a new volunteer, has an appendicitis and is having surgery tomorrow morning. We're all going to the hospital to be with her.

~m

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Saraswati Puja, Brahmo Samaj, Book Fair

Saturday was Saraswati Puja. It was really fun. In the morning, Lauren and I went to Piya's house to have her neighbor wrap our saris for us. (I can wrap one myself, but I don't do a very beautiful job) We met everyone at school, where we had a small worship service (puja) for Saraswati. We had bought a Saraswati statue for the classroom, and a priest came and we prayed and made offerings. All the girls came in saris. Everyone looked gorgeous, and when the puja was over, we played around and took lots of photos. In the evening, we walked around Khardah to look at the pandals. However, they weren't really pandals, they were just small shrines. Saraswati Puja isn't nearly as big as Durga Puja and Kali Puja. I did glimpse a few really large pandals in Kolkata though.
On Sunday, I went to New Alipore (in South Kolkata) to visit some family friends. They are of the religion Brahmo Samaj, and that night was the culmination of their biggest festival. I went to the "church" (Samaj) service with them. I didn't understand it because it was all in Bengali, but it followed the format of a Christian church service - singing and a sermon. The Brahmo religion is similar to Unitarian Universalism. However, from what I understand, they are monotheistic, but they respect all the religious leaders throughout history. After the service, we had a community dinner of ghee bhat (rice lightly fried in ghee), aloo dum (potato curry), roasted cauliflower, and tomato chutney. It was really yummy.
The next day, I went to a big mall and then to the Kolkata Book Fair (Asia's largest book fair) with some of the other volunteers. At the mall, I had Pizza Hut for lunch and it tasted truly American. I bought two kameez (long shirts) that both went with one salwar (big baggy pants) and dupatta (scarf). At the book fair, I bought a membership to the American Library of Kolkata. Their booth at the fair was a pandal of the white house with a big cardboard Obama out front. I also got some books in Bengali that teach English. I gave these to Piya's sister in law. (The girl whose wedding party I went to a few months ago).

~m

Friday, January 30, 2009

Somehow, even though I mean to write frequently, the days just slip by, and before I know, its been a week since my last post. And there's just too much to tell to cram it all into one post. So, I admit, as an audience, you are not getting the full story. Sorry.
However, its really a good thing that I don't have time to write a post every day, because it means I'm very busy.
Earlier this week, I went to see Slumdog Millionaire. If you haven't seen it yet, I suggest that you go. Its a really good movie, and the cinematography is phenomenal. It was cool for me to watch, because I noticed so many small details that I never would have picked up on had I not been living in India. Like the flowers strung over pictures of the deceased.
Sarawsati Puja is tomorrow, and so a few days ago, Lauren , Nienke (a new volunteer from Holland) and I went to Prativa's house to get mehndi (henna) done on our hands. We did it a few days early because it takes a few days to turn brown. At first it is bright orange. On Indian people this looks fine, but on white people like ourselves, it looks kind of ridiculous. While Puja, Prativa's older sister, was doing our mehndi, Prativa was playing with dolls with her little three-year-old neighbor. The dolls were white - semi-reminiscent of Barbies - and they had vermillion and bindis drawn on in marker, and they were dressed in saris. Prativa was kissing them and handling them so gently. It was the sweetest thing in the world to watch.
Last night, the other volunteers and I went into Kolkata to watch a dance performance called Sunya Se. The dancers were trained in Kathak, traditional Indian dance, but the performance was contemporary and modern in style. It was about the five elements: space, air, fire, water, earth. It was really awesome.
Tomorrow is Saraswati Puja, the holiday for Saraswati, the Goddess of Education. We will have a party at school in the morning and we'll go look at pandals at night. I will wear my new sari.

~m

Sunday, January 25, 2009

thoughts on sleeping

I don't have time to write a full blog, so...
Last week some of the girls were over for computer class and I took Manisha into my room to read. She asked if one of the beds was mine, I told her no, my mom slept on that one and I sleep on the adjacent one. "You don't sleep in the same bed?" She asked. "No." "Why?" she asked with perfect puzzlement. "Because we have two beds" - hardly an explanation. In a culture where a person can spend their whole life without ever once sleeping in a bed alone, the idea of sleeping alone just because one has the space does not make sense. Just one example of how our cultures differ. In more affluent families, children do have their own beds. I know that Manisha shares a bed with both her parents and her little brother. I don't know what Piya does though. Piya has two beds in her house (they take up all the floor space in the whole house). And as far as I know, she, her parents, one sister, two brothers, and a sister-in-law all sleep in that tiny space. I do wonder how they arrange themselves. Of course some of my students don't have beds at all, they just sleep on straw mats on the floor. Who would have thought that in something as simple as sleeping, people can differ so much?

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Milir dadur bari

Last night, my mom and I went to Mili's Grandma's house for dinner. It was about a half hour walk from Mili's house. When we got there, we were introduced to Mili's uncles and their wives and kids. In India, the men and their wives and children live with their mothers. So Mili's mom moved in with Mili's dad and his mom, who is now deceased. But the sons of the family live at their parents' house and their wives move in with them. Anyway, there were three sets of aunts and uncles whom we met upon arrival. They took lots of pictures which I am getting printed for them.
None of them spoke English, so the communication consisted of Mili translating and little bits of information being conveyed to or by me in Bengali. I don't know much Bengali, but I can follow what people are talking about so much better than I could when I first arrived.
They of course served us tea and biscuits. Dinner was puri, fried bread that puffs up nearly into spheres, but it can be pushed down into a flatbread shape and is soft and flaky, with a poato curry of sorts. It was delicious. For dessert, we had extremely sweet (that's how all Bengali sweets are) coconut sweets in a sauce. They too were good.
They asked my mom and me to sing, so we sang some children's songs. Mili in turn sang for us in Bengali. It was a really fun night.

~m

Sunday, January 18, 2009

half way home

Friday was half way point for being in India. I guess that feels about right. Time is going quickly, but it doesn't feel like it's slipped by without me noticing. And I'm comfortable with the amount of time left. It doesn't feel too short, or unbearably long. I know as I near the end I'll wish for more time here though.
Yesterday at craft class, we had the kids draw what they want to be when they grow up. One girl drew a math teacher, but it was more to flatter me than because that's actually what she wants to be. The outcome of the assignment was disappointing though. Dreams and ambitions aren't fostered here like they are in America. I really think most of the girls don't aspire to be much more than a mother and a wife. They don't think its possible, and frankly speaking, for most of them it isn't. I can't tell you how much this breaks my heart. Mili, one of the smartest kids I've ever met, drew me. (once again, with the purpose of flattering me) It was sad for me though, because I really do wonder what she wants to be. Or if she even thinks about it. If she were in different circumstances, she could be ANYthing. One girl just copied one of the boy's drawings. The other girls were more original, but I don't think any of them really wanted to be what they drew. They just wanted to finish the assignment. The boys drew a pilot, an astronaut, an artist and a terrorist. The boy who drew a terrorist did it just to get a rise out of us, but I think he really needs some psychological help.Today I spent all day at a big field in Khardah. There were track and field competitions all day. Some of my students competed. Prativa came in second place in a race. Kajal got first in a jump roping race. Piya did a race where she had to balance a pot on her head, but she didn't place. It was really fun to watch though. And, being here is like having celebrity status. I constantly had people coming up to shake my hand or talk to me. Its fun, but it can get tiring. I'm really glad I'm not famous.
Sealdah has been empty of late, due to a festival going on. I'm enjoying the calm, more relaxed sessions though. It can be so intense when everything is in full swing.

~m

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Yesterday was my first day back to teaching after my trip. We had craft class on Saturday and Sunday, but yesterday was the first day of real class. The kids are having exams in their other school right now, so the attendance was very low. Piya and Kajal were the only advanced students who came. We went over the packets that I had left for them to do while I was gone. It was geometery, specifically angles. We had done this in class before, and had a test on it. Almost everyone bombed the test though, so I left the packet for them to do more work on it while I was gone. Piya and Kajal both did really well on the test though, it was the other students that needed the review.
Prativa, Manisha and Jayanto were the intermediate students who were there. We also went over the packet I had left for them. Theirs involved adding fractions with different denominators. None of them had been able to do their packets, even though we had started working on it in class before I left. I went over a few problems with them and Prativa understood and she was off. Manisha and Jayanto weren't so quick. Jayanto could do it when the format was provided for him, but when he had to figure out what the next step was on his own, he really struggled. Manisha could do it, she just wasn't as comfortable with it as Prativa. She'll get better though.
After school, Subhamita and Kakoli came over for the CRAWL meeting. They brough the boxes that my mom had sent for us to have the the CRAWL Christmas party. She had sent them on December 2, and they didn't arrive until this week. They sat in customs in Kolkata for a month. Just goes to show how efficient the Indian Post Office is. A mouse had chewed through the corner of one box, but most of the stuff was unharmed.
Subhamita and Kakoli were going to start Bengali lessons with Lauren and me, but Subhamita's father is very sick, so they had to leave early. We'll start next week.
Aude and I went to play football, which was fun. The teams were divided evenly for once, so it was a good game. Afterwards, Jayanto and Suraj came for special reading class. Lauren gave an English test at school, and all the kids who scored below a certain number have to do special reading class instead of computer class. Jayanto and Suraj are both in special reading, so I was off the hook for computer class.
Prativa had invited Aude and me to come to her house to try some food made out of milk (turned out to be yogurt) that her grandmother had made. So we walked Suraj and Jayanto home, and then went to Prativa's house. Mili came too. First they gave us balls of puffed rice and honey. They were like rice krispee treats but with honey instead of marshmallow. Then they gave us the yogurt with sugar on it. Then they gave us rice and dal with potato and cauliflower in it. All of it was very good. When we finished at Prativa's house, Mili asked us to go to her house. Mili's grandma had come to visit (Prativa's grandma who made the food is her father's mom, so she lives with them. Mili's grandma is her mother's mom, so she lives elsewhere. Women move in with their husband's family when they get married here.) and she too had made lots of food. They served us tea, and then theese things called peethas which are kind of like crepes. They are thicker than crepes, but the texture and flavor is similar, and they had a sweet filling. They also gave us something that looked but didn't taste or feel like ice cream. I don't know what it was. Then they gave us rice pudding with apples and cinnamon and other spices in it. It was all quite delicious, but of course way more food than we needed. Mili's grandma asked us to come to her house, so I think next week Aude and I might go. It will be interesting...

Today, Prativa was the only student who showed up for school. My mom and Lauren started working on English with her while I helped Bobby sort out a cabinet. Dulal showed up almost 45 minutes late, but I did math with him for a bit. We went over the packet I'd left. Then Lauren and my mom did English with him while I did math with Prativa. She's actually not the best at math; it isn't intuitive for her. But she tries so hard to do well that she is easily my best student in the intermediate group. She is so sweet.
Lauren, Aude, Imelda and I played football today, and my mom came to watch. The students tried to get my mom to play too. I asked them if their mothers would play. "no!" they said. "Well neither will mine."
Manisha is out of town for her older sister's wedding and I haven't seen Sayani in awhile, so Prativa was the only student who came for computer class. She and Sayani are in special reading, Manisha isn't. Prativa is one of the best speakers of English, but she's not good at reading and writing it, so that's why she's in special reading. Anyway, Lauren had to clean her room when we found out a new volunteer will come tomorrow, so I sat in for her. Prativa read Frog and Toad stories. She liked them. As I think I've said already in this post, she is sooooooooo cute.
So the past few days have been good.
~m

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

I promised a certain reader that I'd try to write more...
Being back in Khardah has been nice. I was getting tired of constantly being on the move. Being a tourist is ok for awhile, but I really prefer to stay in one place and get to know it and its people well, rather than just looking and leaving.
I was definitely very happy to see all of my students again, and I think they were excited to see me too.
At craft class on Saturday, the kids painted used clay chai (in Bengali, cha) cups to be used for decoration. Lots of them painted the same design, but Binda made hers very intricate and beautiful. It was interesting because the next day at craft class, they made birthday cards for Imelda (a volunteer who is from Ireland but lives in Australia) and Binda really struggled. She could barely draw hearts, let alone write "happy birthday". But painting she had been fabulous at. She's 15 I think, but she's way behind the other students. She barely speaks any English, and I don't think she goes to school outside CRAWL. In CRAWL, she's in Bobby's class with the little kids, learning the alphabet and such.
Sealdah was empty on Sunday because of some puja or other. My favorites weren't there, so I'm looking forward to hopefully seeing them on Friday. It will have been four weeks since I've seen them at that point.
On Moday, I had a nice relaxing day at the flat. I started reading "Am I a Hindu", which explains the basic aspects of Hinduism. I'm living in a Hindu place, but I really know nothing about Hinduism. Anyway, that's changing now. I got about halfway through the book on that one day... When I went to play football with the kids, they didn't want to play, so we just walked around Khardah until it got dark. I enjoyed it. After that, all the volunteers went out to eat at the Penguine Inn for Imelda's birthday, and we had cake and ice cream back at the flat.
Today, Aude (volunteer from Switzerland), Imelda, my mom (she's staying at the flat and volunteering with CRAWL for two weeks) and I went into Kolkata. We had breakfast and went to a little store that sells imported foods, and then we went to the Victoria Memorial. None of them had been before. The weather was great, unlike when CRAWL went for the field trip.
We did play football today. The kids are too damn rough with eachother, but I didn't have the energy to police them today.
That's all for now, I think...
~m

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Travels part dui

When we were leaving the hotel in Delhi to go exploring, my parents and I hailed an autorickshaw. The driver saw the Obama pin I was wearing and got really excited. He said he'd take us anywhere for a reduced rate. We got in and as he was driving us, we started talking. We ended up hiring him to take us around for the whole day. Because it was sunday, lots of things, espeicially the shopping areas, were closed. He drove us by all the government buildings and then took us to the Gandhi Smriti (memorial). It's at the house where Ghandi lived the last days of his life, and where he was killed. The house has been converted to a multimedia interactive museum. The exhibits were some of the koolest I have ever seen. They were all so creative. I really wish we could have spent more time there. We spent most of the rest of the day going to different shops, but that night we went to a dance performace. It wasn't very good though. Overall, I liked Delhi quite a bit. I'd like to go back again when its a little warmer and when I have more time to spend there.

The next morning, we caught a plane to Kolkata. I took my parents to Park Street and New Market. My dad and I went to the Kali temple, which is supposedly Kolkata's holiest spot. Its hundreds of years old and possibly where Kolkata got its name. The temple itsself was really beautiful. It was painted silver and rainbow colors. A guide showed us through. We went through all the motions of a regular Hindu devotee.

The next day, we went to the Sunderban Tiger Reserve. The Sunderbans are the delta region for the Hooghly, the Ganges, and many other rivers. Its lots of very small islands that shrink and grow with the tide. It is one of the few places in the world where tigers remain in the wild. In fact, the Royal Bengal Tigers of the Sunderbans are the only man-eating tigers in the world. They are a threat to the local people of the Sunderbans, but they are being protected because they had been about to go extinct. Anyway, while at the camp, we rode boats through the waterways and looked at wildlife. It was a really nice change of pace from all the hustle and bustle of the previous days. One day we took a walk through a small village. There was no electricity or running water as far as I know. The people were of course very friendly. I spoke a little bit of Bengali to some of them. There was a Bengali family who lives in Canada that was on the trip with us and they translated for us too. They have a good understanding of Western culture, and obviously they have a good understanding of Bengali culture. Because of this, they told us lots of things about their culture that a Bengali who has never been to North America wouldn't think to tell us because they've never seen anything different. So it was really educational to be with them.
When we got back to Kolkata, I took my parents to Khardah and showed them around and introduced them to my students. Then I subjected them to the busy trains. We went to Howrah to see the Howrah Bridge and took a ferry to Babughat. From there we went to the VM.
My mom and I said or goodbyes to my dad that night, and we came back to Khardah as he flew home. It was a fun trip, but I'm happy to be back in one place again. I really did miss the students quite a bit.
We have two new volunteers here now; Aude from Switzerland and Imelda from Ireland/Australia. They're both really nice.
~m

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Travels pt 1

On Sunday I flew to Mumbai to meet my parents. Their plane got fogged in in Indianapolis and they missed their connecting flight, so instead of getting to Mumbai almost an entire day before me, they arrived about five hours after me. So when I got to the hotel, I checked in and then went out to explore a little and have dinner alone.
The reunion with my parents wasn't very dramatic, but we were all happy to see each other again. Its weird that it'd been four months. When I talk to my friends who are in their first year at college, I say things like "it must be weird to not see your parents for so long, I can't even imagine how that would be" only to realize that I'm doing just that.
Mumbai is really nice; I like it alot. Its so different from Khardah and Kolkata that it almost didn't feel like India to me. Its very chic. Of course I only small a very small part of the city, but the buildings were well maintained and the architecture. I thought that it felt very European. I asked my mom if she though so too and she said no, it felt more like Mexico. Haha. So I guess its all a matter of perspective. Coming from Kolkata, Mumbai feels like Europe (or so I imagine, I've never actually been) and coming from the US it feels like Mexico. Anyway, the part we were in was beautiful. Our hotel was literally around the corner from the Taj Hotel. There were huge barricades around it and the Gateway of India, but they were both beautiful nonetheless.
We went on a self-guided walking tour and went to Chowpatty Beach to watch the sunset and walked on Marine Drive. Mumbai was nothing like how I imagined it from the books I'd read. I'd like to go back for a longer period of time if I ever get a chance.
Mumbai is very different from Kolkata in many ways. One of the first billboards I saw upon my arrival was for Kotex thin maxi pads. That would never be up in Kolkata. The women who would definitely wear saris in Kolkata wore salwars in Mumbai, sometime with big white sneakers (which you also wouldn't see in Kolkata) and with or without the dupatta, or with it on backwards or askew (which would never happen in Kolkata; dupattas are very important). The girls and young women who would wear salwars in Kolkata wore westernized clothes in Mumbai. I hardly saw any saris at all. Another noticeable difference was, frankly, there were alot more fat people. I saw people jogging on my taxi drive to the hotel and I knew I wasn't in Kolkata any more. And of course, the people in Mumbai didn't look like Bengalis because they aren't. I do miss being able to read the signs though. I took pleasure in sounding out words in Bengali even if I didn't know what they meant.
We spent one full day in Mumbai and then flew to Jaipur. Rajasthan was somewhere between Mumbai and Kolkata as far as Westernization and general atmosphere. But it had its own feel. The forts we visited were amazing. They are so old and yet ingeniously designed and beautifully intricate. We did a fair amount of shopping in Jaipur. We visited an ancient archaelogical center which was amazing in its complexity. It sports the biggest (or maybe second-biggest) sundial in the world.
We spent two days in Jaipur before driving to Agra. The buildings here too were amazing. I wish I remebered the names of everything we saw (in Jaipur and in Agra) We visited the Agra Fort, or the Red Fort, which was huge and beautiful. And we visted a fort outside of
Agra which was used instead of the Red Fort for about 10 years. It was neat too. We went to see the Taj Mahal from across the river. It is amazing. This morning we actually went to the grounds of teh Taj, but it was so cloudy that it couldn't even be seen from the main gate. Up close, it is huge and beautiful. The marble inlay is so intricate. The weather was very unfortunate though.
After seeing the Taj, we drove to Delhi, which is where I am now. I saw the Taj this morning. I'm going to go eat dinner now. Don't know when I'll write again. Happy New Year! (oh, we celebrated new year's eve at the hotel in Jaipur. We danced with the Indians)

~m