Sunday, September 21, 2008

Trina and I had dinner at Joy's last night. They did not eat with us, as I thought might be the case. They served us rice bryani (I have no idea how to spell that) that they bought from a vendor or restaraunt or somewhere. I know they didn't make it though, because they had it in little to-go boxes. It was very good, but I felt bad because it meant that feeding us was a big expense for them. I would have rather eaten whatever they usually eat, even if its only plain rice and chapathi. I had been looking forward to trying some Indian home cooking, but that wasn't to be. They gave us huge portions, so we each only ate half of what they gave us, in hopes that they'd eat the rest after we left. I hope we didn't offend them by doing this. I honestly wouldn't have eaten as much as they gave me anyway. We bought them a variety of cakes to share with their extended family. They didn't understand why we were giving them something when we were the guests (guests are held in very high esteem in India; being a host is an honor) We told them that in America, it is customary to bring gifts. (Once again, we didn't want to offend them). So the dinner was yummy, but I don't think I'll accept a similar offer again because is it such a big expense for the family. I am interested in seeing the other students' houses though.

Today we went to Sealdah and it was pretty empty again, though not to the extent that it was yesterday. The kids colored and then we passed out food. I didn't help with the first aid at all, instead I just played with the kids. This one little boy was a freakin' monkey, he would climb all over me and he wouldn't let me put him down. They all want to be held. They're so cute! Trina and Jen took some pictures, so I may put a few up soon.
After Sealdah, I showered and took a nap and then had lunch while watching the Godfather 2. The girls came for computer class and we looked through pictures of Subhamita's wedding. At school, the kids made clay ice cream cones. (I made a chalice). After school I came here. Now I'm ready to go have dinner! (though it doesn't come for two more hours...) Tomorrow is a day off, but I think I'll be staying in Khardah because Trina doesn't want to go to Kolkata twice a week after the train incidents last week. Oh well, I'll sleep in and spend some time doing art.

~m

1 comment:

Romaric09 said...

The paragraph that talks about you being invited by your friends is very touching due to the fact that they watched you eat instead of eating themselves. You did a great job by buying them the cakes.

Romaric Amoa