Monday, June 27, 2011
Week Two
Monday, June 20, 2011
Borsha Kaal Eshe Gaelo
Arrival in Kolkata and My New Host Family
We were greeted in Kolkata by the first coming of the monsoon rains. It had not rained in the days, weeks, and even months leading up to our arrival, so it was very hot and dry (India’s summer season is mid-April to mid-June). But literally as we were walking from the airport to the car, it started to rain. I found it to be a perfect welcoming gift, because it means a breaking of the heat of the summer months. Everything was washed clean of its dust and grime, and Kolkata shone as we drove into the city. The colors somehow seemed brighter, the attitude softer and the city gentler than in Delhi. But maybe that was just because of my pre-existing affection for Kolkata.
We were taken to AIIS in Kolkata, and later our hosts/land ladies (the other three CLS students are staying in apartments rather than with host families) came to pick us up. I had asked to stay with my previous host family, but Protima Di, the head teacher at AIIS, had told me that was not possible. I originially thought that she was putting me with a family who is new to the organization, so I was going to guinea pig them in, so to speak. That, however, was not the case. CLS has a rule that each CLS student should have his or her own host family, so because the Mukharjees (my hosts from last year) have multiple rooms, Protimadi put two AIIS students who are not on CLS in that house. At first I was disappointed, but Protima Di, because she knows me so well from last summer, was able to choose a great host for me. Chitra Di is a really strong woman who exudes confidence and has an easy, genuine smile. I liked her immediately. She came to pick me up in her own car, which she drives herself. An older woman who can (or chooses to) drive is a rare sight in Kolkata. In fact, she is the first woman driver I’ve ever seen here. One time a saw a girl about my age learning to drive a car, and I’ve seen young women driving scooters and mo-peds, but never an older woman, and never her own car. So I was impressed from the moment we left AIIS. As some of you may know, traffic in India is absolutely hectic. But Chitra Di held her own and didn’t back down to men driving much larger vehicles. After one particularly bold move, the small, sari-clad woman, beeping and honking with the best of the them, turned me and said, “you have to fight.”
Chitra Di lives alone in a flat in New Alipur, in South Kolkata. She has one daughter, who is living and working in Delhi. Her flat is actually pretty far from my school, and from the metro, which is my only complaint about the arrangement, and, in my mind, totally worth it. She has one maid, Brihoshpoti Di, who lives in the servants’ quarters downstairs (who knew that modern apartment buildings have “kajer lok-er ghor” built into them?). Chitra Di’s apartment is small: two bedrooms, one large living/dining room, and a kitchen. Especially compared to the entire four-story building owned by the host family I stayed with last year, the new place is small. But I actually prefer it. Last year there were so many people who I didn’t know, and so many rooms I had never seen where I was staying. This year, there are just two other people, both women, and every room in the apartment can be seen from the middle hallway. There is a coziness to it that wasn’t at my previous place.
While it was weeks before I even found out where the kitchen was in my last house, here I am allowed, and even expected to carry my dishes to the sink after dinner. I know this sounds silly, but such a small task actually feels empowering in a culture where the guest is usually not to lift a finger. Though I still doubt I will ever be allowed to so much as make myself a cup of tea.
Chitra Di is a designer for a fair-trade NGO that exports handicrafts to Europe and other parts of Asia. As far as I can tell, she decides how a shirt, or a piece of furniture or a textile should look, and then the artists make it. Anyways, she is socially-minded. The first night I was at her place, she say down in front of the TV and asked me if I’d like to watch the news. My kind of lady! I was exuberant. Last summer I watched lots of TV with Maitrayi Di, though it was all Bengali soaps. With Chitra Di I watch CNN and BBC. Perhaps not as good for my Bengali education, but so much better for my taste in media and my ability to be informed.
Long story short (or, if you’ve read this whole thing, long story long), I really like my living arrangements for the summer.
~m
In Delhi
All 60 or so of us doing CLS in India landed in Delhi last weekend to have our in-country orientation. We visited the AIIS headquarters in Gurgaon, outside of Delhi, where there is an impressive collection of ethnomusicology sound recordings, archeological documents and literature from India. Amidst many hours of orientation, we were able to squeeze in a little sight seeing. We went to the Qutb Minar in Delhi, which is an ancient astrological instrument (it’s actually an enormous sundial). The minar is well-preserved, but some of the surrounding grounds are in ruins. The whole sight was very beautiful.
After our tour of AIIS Gurgaon, they took us to the Kingdom of Dreams, which is probably the closest thing India has to Disney World, minus the rides. It’s this immaculate fake castle, and on the inside they have shops and restaurants from nearly every state. I think they took us there just because it was close to AIIS (Gurgaon is a business-oriented suburb of Delhi where the ultra-rich live amongst towering headquartes of Multinationals and shantytowns of construction workers and other service people). Anyways, it was disappointed to have to spend two or three hours in the Kingdom of Dreams, which is a pathetically unrealistic representation of the country, when we could have been exploring Delhi and its real monuments.
Luckily we did have Monday afternoon free to go wherever we chose. I went with two guys from the Urdu program to Old Delhi. We went on the metro, which is one of India’s prouder recent achievements. The whole system was built, with the help of funding and technical support from the Japanese government (India is the biggest recipient of Japanese foreign aid), on time, within budget, and without any corruption scandals. There are five or six lines, and the trains are clean, fast, and air-conditioned. I was very impressed. By comparison, Kolkata’s metro system, which was built in the 80’s, has only one line, which runs from North to South (though they have recently expanded it further south, and are in the process of building an East-West line), and is un-air conditioned. It also generally runs on time, and for a fraction of the price. A ticket on the Kolkata metro costs from Rs 4-8 while in Delhi it’s Rs. 15-30 or so. Double the number to get the approximate American cost, in cents (a 4 Rupee ticket is about 8 American cents (though it’s actually probably closer to 9)).
We got out of the metro and basically guessed where to go, walking around until we could see the top of the Red Fort. When we got up to the gate, we realized that it was closed, as most monuments and museums in India are on Mondays. We looked at it through the gate, and then, in a roundabout way, eventually found the Jamuna Masjid. It was absolutely beautiful, though we declined to pay the Rs 200 entrance fee, so, like the Red Fort, we only saw it from the outside. After that, we wandered through some of the alleys in bazaar of Old Delhi before heading back to the metro. All in all, it was a fun afternoon, and it was nice to finally get out on my own, and be able to choose where I was going, rather than being ushered around.
On Tuesday morning, we all left for our different program locations.
The pictures of me at the Qutb Minar, the bazaar in Old Delhi, and inside the Kingdom of Dreams.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Back to Kolkata! ...Again!
Monday, June 28, 2010
Strikes, visits, etc

Wow, I’m getting much less time to write than I thought I would. Which actually is a good thing, because it means I’m really busy.
School is going really well. Now that my online class from AU is over (took my final exam on Friday), I will be able to give my full attention to Bengali class. Before I was spending time that should be have been spent studying Bangla, studying cinema. That was part of what packed up my schedule, too. But anyway, about school: I have four classes a day, on various topics. Some of it is pretty standard basic stuff – grammar, etc. But some of my classes have been tailored to my personal interests, so my reading class often involves reading political news. The other day was reading about the Maoists in the Southwestern part of the state. At this point I’m just reading headlines and highlighted sentences; I can’t just sit down and read the whole thing. I’m getting speedier at short stories, though.
Some of the highlights of the past week:
On Monday, I went to visit my friend Anwesha at her grandparents’ place. I met her at the Durga Puja in DC. She goes to Georgetown, lives in FL. But she’s Bengali and this summer she and her parents came back to visit. So I got to meet them and her grandparents, too. Her grandparents were really excited to have me at their place. They took a gazillion photos while I ate lunch, lol.
On Wednesday, we had a guest speaker come after class. Abhijit Bose is a famous Bengali folk singer. He talked about the different types of folk songs in the different regions of West Bengal. He told us about eight or nine varieties, and this is just in one state! He’s famous for a reason. His voice is absolutely beautiful. He tried to teach us a song and to get us to sing along, but that was problematic for two reasons: we couldn’t read his extremely sloppy Bengali handwriting, and I (idk about Danielle and Andi) am a terrible singer. I don’t sing aloud where people can hear in English, let alone try to sing a song I’ve never heard before in another language. Haha. It was really neat to have him come though.
To continue with the musical activities, Danielle and I went with Andi to her first tabla lesson. Tablas are really neat Indian hand drums that make all sorts of noises most Americans wouldn’t associate with a drum. That was pretty neat to watch. The notes are Bengali (or more probably Sanskrit) letters, but unlike English notes, the notes’ names are matched with their sound. So the teacher taught Andi about eight notes, then sang/clapped them out for her to play. At the end of the lesson, we asked him to play something more complicated, just for show. He began singing the notes as he played them too, which was neat. It sounded like the music that goes with Kathak dance (a traditional Indian dance, Wikipedia it). So that was neat.
On Friday we went on a field trip after class. Prosenjitda and Priyankadi took us to the Marble Palace. It requires a pass from the WB office of tourism, which is why I had never gone before. If I had known how incredibly cool it is, maybe I would have though. It’s this enormous (crumbling, as is most of the Colonial architecture in Kolkata) mansion with floors and walls of marble. Every square inch of it is extremely detailed; its impossible to take it all in. Most of the floors were designed to look like carpet, so there were easily 15 different colors of marble within 5 square feet of floor. The ceilings aren’t marble, but they’re extremely intricate as well. The house would be a sight to see empty, but it is the opposite. Every room is chock-full of paintings and sculptures from colonial times. There’s an enormous statue of Queen Victoria, busts of many other historic figures, and statues of probably every Greek god. It was really more than the eye could take in. The family of the man who had it built in the 1800s still owns it, and in fact part of it is sectioned off as their living quarters. Outside, the grounds are quite well maintained, and there is even a small zoo with birds and deer and such. I saw the most beautiful peacock, but the zoo only convinced me further that visiting any zoo in India is a bad idea. The cages are shamefully small, and I just felt sorry for all the animals.
After the Marble Palace, we stopped by Rabindranath Tagore’s (the famous Bengali poet) birthplace. His old family home has been turned into a museum, and it’s on the campus of a university he established (or perhaps it was just established in his name). I had been there before, on Tagore’s birthday last year, and it was so packed I barely saw any of it. It was much emptier on Friday, and we strolled around the campus and through the galleries at our leisure. Unfortunately it was near closing-time when we entered, so even then we felt rushed.
On Saturday, I went back to the CRAWL Sealdah Station project for the first time, and Danielle and Maitrayeedi (I spelled her name wrong last time. It’s pronounced Moitri, but in English she spells it Maitrayee) came with me. I saw a lot of people I knew, which was really neat. Unfortunately, the project isn’t going so well. There were only about 20 or 30 kids, compared to the 70-90 we usually had last year. They’ve planted flowers in the spot where we used to set up, so now they’re running the project at a different part of the station. Just this past week the RR Authority “un-granted” the permission to give out food, so now we have to take the kids off the station grounds and form a line there to distribute food. Wound care, coloring, and washing are proceeding as usual. I really enjoyed going back again, even though it was so different and not everyone I wanted to see was there. I have to figure out the bus routes/schedule so I can there more cheaply. The taxi we took cost Rs 156 (just over $3), and that was only one way. By comparison, I can’t imagine a bus costing more than Rs 8 or so.
We caught that cab (and one on the way back) despite the transportation strike that was going on in Kolkata that day. The Indian Federal government raised gas prices on Friday at midnight (I guess the correct thing to say is Saturday at midnight), and the Communist Party of India (Marxist), the former majority party in West Bengal, called a 24-hour transportation strike (of taxis and auto-rickshaws) in protest. It was an amazing sight to see. I live on one of the larger roads, and there were three rows of taxis parked as far as the eye could see. It was eerily quiet with only personal cars on the streets. Usually there are lines of autos waiting for people, but later in the day I saw a line of people waiting for an auto. And that night, I saw a group of people marching in protest. The marches are actually not uncommon, I used to see a lot of political marches when I lived here before. That’s one thing I love about Bengali culture, even if I don’t agree with they’re ideals: they’re very active and political. I won’t get started on West Bengali politics here, but there is a lot I could say. Anyways, their request won’t be answered. India’s national deficit is skyrocketing (perhaps not compared to the US), and they’ve been subsidizing gas since the 70’s. Gas prices had basically not changed since 2004, when ppb soared. Basically, the state can’t afford to keep subsidizing gas at such high rates. Here’s the full story: http://www.telegraphindia.com/1100626/jsp/frontpage/story_12612781.jsp
On Saturday evening, I went to my friend Sweta’s house. I know her through Babai. She showed me around her area (called Girish Park, very close to the Marble Palace and Tagore’s place). I really like her neighborhood a lot. Things were starting to close when went for a walk around 8:30, and the transportation strike contributed to the calm. But the streets were narrow and winding, and not nearly so hectic as the road I live on. We went to a (Kali) temple and prayed, and she showed me around the different aspects of it. I had dinner at her place before heading back to mine. Sweta is actually Bihari, so she spoke to her mom in their native Bihari language and in Hindi. She and her brother and her little neighbor spoke Hindi with eachother, and the three of them spoke English with me. But her mom doesn’t speak English, so we spoke Bengali to eachother. In that one room, there were four languages being spoken. Sweta joked that it was like the tri-lingual train announcements, with everything being translated from language to language.
On Sunday I went back to Khardah for the third time since I’ve been here. This time Prativa and Mili had come back from visiting their families, so I got to see them for the first time. I had tea and played cards with Bobby and Debashis and their neighbor before walking around Khardah with the girls. I also finally got to see Monica Aunty (the jewellery shop-keeper near my old flat). I went to her house because she wasn’t at the store. It was neat to see her. She was excited with how much Bangla I can speak now. She literally watched me progress from no Bengali, to a few words, to struggling to produce coherent sentences, to where I am today, which still has plenty of room for improvement. But she’s seen the lingual transformation.
Well, I think I’ve written entirely too much for one post, so I’ll leave it at that. Below are some pictures of the transit strike, as well as one of my room, one of the house I live in (viewed from the second-floor terrace), and one of me and Sweta.
~m